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Why Silence Feels Cheaper Than Ten Awkward Seconds

1:09 · 2026-10-07

Ghosting usually isn't cruelty or indifference.

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Silence only looks free.

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Sources behind this episode

  • qualitative peer-reviewed studyGhosting and orbiting: An analysis of victims' experiencesPancani, Mazzoni, Aureli, and Riva 2021, Journal of Social and Personal Relationships, 38(7)
  • peer-reviewed studyGhosting in Emerging Adults' Romantic Relationships: The Digital Dissolution Disappearance StrategyLeFebvre, Allen, Rasner, Garstad, Wilms, and Parrish 2019, Imagination, Cognition and Personality, 39(2), 125-150
  • peer-reviewed experimentsUndervaluing Gratitude: Expressers Misunderstand the Consequences of Showing AppreciationKumar and Epley 2018, Psychological Science
  • foundational economic modelDoing It Now or LaterO'Donoghue and Rabin 1999, American Economic Review, 89(1), 103-124
  • peer-reviewed studyRelationship dissolution strategies: Comparing the psychological consequences of ghosting, orbiting, and rejectionPancani, Aureli, and Riva 2022, Cyberpsychology: Journal of Psychosocial Research on Cyberspace, 16(2)
  • peer-reviewed studyWhen Your Boo Becomes a Ghost: The Association Between Breakup Strategy and Breakup Role in Experiences of Relationship DissolutionKoessler, Kohut, and Campbell 2019, Collabra: Psychology

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